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‘It’s just a joke’

It’s tiring always being viewed as the ‘wrong sort of woman,’ writes JENNA, a woman who has exited the sex industry

Time spent in the sex industry can be challenging to recover from

I SUFFER WITH depression and have done for the majority of my life. I know why. It’s not a mystery. Traumatic things happened, lots at a young age and that’s how my brain has come to be. I do my best though, I meditate, I read, my book shelf has seen more self-help books than I should probably admit to.

But an easy tool, one that I’ve used since childhood is comedy. Reruns of my favourites. It’s the ultimate comfort, like putting on an old pair of PJs and getting under a blanket. It’s familiar and the characters say words you’ve heard a hundred times before. It’s like being with friends who just let you sit with them in silence and with no expectations.

Comedy changes a lot, though. What we’re allowed to laugh at changes and what we find uncomfortable and questionable switches over time. It’s changed since I was a child in the ’90s watching Only Fools and Horses as the homophobic and racist jokes went over my head. There’s one subject that’s always good for a laugh though and that’s those women who aren’t like your regular women. It’s the kind that get paid for sex. The whores, the trick-turners, the ladies of the night, those good old-fashioned prostitutes.

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